Knee Length is the New Length 07/07/2011
a-line skirt IN THE NEWEST SHAPE AND LENGTH, IT'S THE SKIRT THAT REALLY WORKS I always love seeing things that modest dressers have always worn suddenly hailed as the "Newest Shape!" "Newest length!" Yep, it's a knee-length skirt. How refreshingly novel! As I admonished you in this post about midi skirts, get 'em while the gettin's good! It's much easier to shop for items when they're a hot ticket in style "trends." When the rest of the fashion world is going gaga over mini skirts, knee length won't be as prevalent in the stores. I may get this skirt. I really like the slightly a-line shape and the slightly 60's mod styling. In a sturdy stretch ponte knit it'll last for-absolutely-ever. Remember, the Nordstrom Anniversary sale is NEW fall season items at sweet sale prices. Here are a few other things I'm digging from the preview. Fantastic blazer. And I swoon for anything that smacks of Chanel (at a price I can afford.) Gorgeous brown tall boots. Because as I mentioned last year... the boots zip!! Because I shrunk out of all my coats last year and I love the asymmetrical closure and cool leather and knit sleeve details. But I want it in black. Add Comment How TO wear coverage tees 3 03/31/2011
We're closing out our study of coverage tees today with Darks and Fall/Winter looks. If you need to catch up, you can check out Part 1- Spring/Summer and Part 2- Lace/Sheer. Darks can swing to the tricky or easy side. Let's analyze.
Fall/Winter layers are when coverage tees are at their most useful. They become the extra layer you need without adding bulk. A couple things to remember:
I hope you enjoyed this tutorial. I'd love to know your thoughts on these shirts and if you have any questions that I didn't address. How TO wear coverage tees 2 03/28/2011
- Part 2 - We're continuing our look at how one can stylishly employ coverage tees. We started last week with some Spring looks and major Do's and Do Not's. Today's it's Sheer and Lace! I've been getting emails from folks asking, "What are you talking about with these shirts? Are people seriously wearing them like that?" While modesty tees can be found most anywhere, I don't think anyone can deny that the looks I showcased in How NOT to Wear Coverage Tees are mostly a "Utah thing" or a "Mormon thing." I love that Utah is the hotbed of modest dressing. The Mormon community definitely carries the torch for modesty high. But admittedly, it can be a challenge to inject variety into a wardrobe with some pretty defined rules. It seems that when these coverage tees hit the big time, more than a few folks figured they could be used to wear anything and everything. And that's where we ran into some serious style trouble. But no more! We're getting the coverage tees back on track! Lace and chiffon are big for spring! I've always loved both! They're so feminine and romantic. Coverage tees work perfect under these items and you can make them work best with a few simple tips.
Yesterday's post was getting long so I saved this tip for today. FASHION TAPE! Get it. Use it. Love it. There's no need to wear an entire coverage tee just to help with the tiniest of gaps that might happen at a neckline. A little strip of double-sided fashion tape at the underwear/bra line will keep that top/dress in place all day. You can find it at most sewing supply stores and online. I like the pre-cut strips as opposed to the rolls. They're much easier to remove from the backing and you can take along a couple extra strips. A few tips for expert taping:
How to wear coverage tees 03/21/2011
- PART 1 - Alrighty - let's get to it! As I mentioned in "How NOT to wear coverage tees," I'm on a mission to eradicate the crimes against good style that some folks are committing with these useful, but often misused, fitted t-shirts. For anyone just joining us, a "coverage tee" or "modesty t-shirt" is a very fitted tee with a higher neckline, longer length and sleeves ranging from small cap to long. Let's tackle this by season and by style. Since spring is upon us, and the worst coverage tee crimes occur in spring and summer, this is the best place to begin. The DO's...
The DON'T's...
The bottom line is this. Coverage tees shouldn't be the basics of your wardrobe. But for many women, they became that. They somehow replaced your classic white button down, perfect v-neck tee, polo shirts, etc. They are a basic in a wardrobe, not the basic. Stay tuned tomorrow for laces and sheers! And fall/winter! Ask Image Interpreters - Formal Event 03/18/2011
Q: Let me preface this by saying I'm not a fancy person. I'm a mom, but a few weeks ago I received a letter telling me that I've been nominated as a candidate for "Young Mother of the Year" for my state. I have two fashion opportunities coming up--a luncheon and a gala. Can you help me? What should I wear? I'm 5'4" and 140-ish pounds. Thanks! - J. First off, CONGRATULATIONS! This sounds like such an honor and the opportunity for a fun, unique event. I wanted a little extra information from J. and didn't get to post this before the luncheon but I'm going to address it anyway, in case the information is useful for anyone else. 1. Don't dress down. A luncheon of any type calls for "dressy casual." An AWARD luncheon calls for a step up from that. For an event like this, I'd go with a dress, although the trousers and blouse combo would also work. Just no denim. Period. Formal wear - be it Cocktail level or Black Tie level - is especially tricky for modest dressers. If a dress is long enough, it tends to show too much skin up top. If the top is covered, it often goes no lower than mid thigh. If the front is covered, it's backless. If the back is covered, it has a plunging V-neckline! It's quite a conundrum. If you ever find a formal dress that's timeless, flattering, and modest without modification - BUY IT! You'll wear it someday, I promise, and it'll be worth every penny. J. purchased the dress you see at the top. She might want something different for next year, so we're going to address the options.
The formal skirt/white button down shirt combo has been hitting the red carpet for a while. And I really like it because it's versatile. The skirt can be paired with different button downs, a brocade tank and shrug as shown above, or a cashmere twinset for less formal occasions. But it has it's own set of rules.
Accessories J. says she's "not a fancy person" so I don't want to overwhelm her with jewelry options she might not be comfortable with but I still want her to have fun with it. And choose things she could use again and again. For J.'s dress, I suggest long, sparkly earrings and a tennis bracelet or slim bangles. Maybe a fun cocktail ring. She has short hair, which will play nicely with the earrings. Chandelier earrings would be lovely. They'll also leave the neckline open and long, which will draw nice attention to the face. I've also suggested she kick her shoes up a notch. The lower heel with this dress pitches toward frumpy. A higher heel in black or a neutral metallic will be a better option. If she's not sure how to do evening-event appropriate makeup, I suggest booking an appointment at a makeup counter (Sephora or Nordstrom?) on your way to the event. Or at the very least, a few days before so they can give you a tutorial. J. sent me a few pictures of last years gala. There was some sparkle, lots of under-dressed shirt/skirt combo's, several frumpy "Sunday Suits", even a few pants. I'd have loved to fix up the whole group in a makeover suite! I think the dress she chose will be appropriate for the room as well as for the occasion. We don't want her in floor-length sequins with a sweeping train if the rest of the room is in Sunday dress but we also don't want her dressing down just because others don't know the meaning of "Formal Gala Event." Under-dressed people should never dictate what's appropriate, but too often, it's the properly dressed folks who feel silly. Always dress for the occasion and then wear it with confidence! You'll own the room! And hopefully inspire someone else to dress better next time. Good luck, J.! We're excited to hear when you win! More bad coverage tees 03/03/2011
As requested, I am working on a post about how to correctly utilize coverage tees. While you're waiting, study these examples I found today. Appropriate Application of a Coverage Tee It's fine. The neckline is way too high, which has long been another gripe I have with these undershirts. Modesty does not have to mean covering from your collar bone to your wrist! But the overall look is fine. She'd look much slimmer if the bottom of the white shirt wasn't poking out under the sweater. Criminal Application of a Coverage Tee No, no, no, NO NO!!! What the...??? On what planet is this attractive?!? Nothing in this solar system. Nor anywhere the Hubble will ever find. As I said last week in "How NOT to wear coverage tees," some clothes just won't work. This looks like she put her swimsuit on over her cover up because she's REALLY worried about sunburn. These examples came from Apricot Apparel, a company I had not heard of until today. I'm sure they make a fine product (lower the dang neckline!) but their marketing campaign is par for the course with their competitors. Yes, there was more head bashing when I saw this shot. How NOT to wear coverage tees 02/25/2011
It's time to revisit one of my favorite rants. If you would like the primer for today's post, quickly check out Summertime Snafu from two years ago. It really should be required reading for all modest dressers. Done reading? Let's discuss. When you make the decision to dress modestly you MUST come to grips with the fact that there are certain things you can NOT wear. Attempting to modify any and all apparel will NOT result in flattering, good-looking outfits. Case in point... This display has been driving me bonkers ever since it hit our Costco. Please analyze it while I go bash my head against the wall. Mr. Darcy has repeatedly had to hold me back from climbing up, ripping it down, and running around the store screaming, "THIS IS NOT ATTRACTIVE! If you attempt to wear this to a dressy function, people with a sense of style and half a brain will wonder what is wrong with you!" Do I think there is a place in this world for coverage tees? ABSOLUTELY! Do I own a mod bod tee? Yep! And a Shade tee and a couple others. Are there right and wrong ways to wear these tees? WITHOUT QUESTION! And baby, that ain't it up there. Nor down here. This one annoys me less but only slightly so. It's the casual vs dressy thing. Casual-layering gone wrong is easier on the eyes than dressy-layering gone so very wrong. The basic fact of the matter is that the silky vest should not have been an option. Or if she was absolutely set on wearing it, a jacket/sweater/blazer should have been added to cover the arms. The third layer would have demoted it from a first-degree murder of style to involuntary manslaughter. In order to look our very best, we modest dressers need to come to grips with the fact that spaghetti straps, deep cleavage, and sleeveless/strapless/backless items are no longer options. And that's ok!! I do not understand why there is such a war to incorporate these clothes into a modest wardrobe. At least in this unattractive way. I have some sleeveless tank-style tops/dresses that I like, but they ALWAYS go under a jacket or cardigan. They are the base layers, never the outer layers. When coverage tees first hit the streets the marketing was very logical. The ads featured women wearing the tees to help cover the midsection when a shirt might rise up too high when the arms were lifted. Or under a slightly too-sheer shirt/dress. Or to fill in gaping underarms. The key? The coverage tee was never the focus of the outfit. It doesn't surprise me that these companies are trying to evolve their product into more of a center piece but a line needs to be drawn. For the sake of all things stylish, a line must be drawn by each woman in her own wardrobe. If you need some motivation, how about the threat of me and my phone camera finding you and featuring you as a What Not To Wear? I'm on a crusade, people. It has to stop. Ask Image Interpreters - Bringing Sexy Back! 03/22/2010
![]() Q: "Most of my week I'm an exhausted mom but my husband and I renewed our commitment to regular date nights a little while ago. The problem is, I'm wearing essentially the same things I wear the rest of the week! All my clothes are mom-friendly, modest, and (I hate to admit it) pretty frumpy. I'm not sure how I got to this point but what should I do about it now? I have limited funds to put toward a solution and want to spend it wisely. Sincerely - K., A: I think we've all been there, K! One day you're cute, glowing and pregnant, the next you haven't worn much besides yoga pants and a t-shirt for weeks on end. Here are my best tips for reclaiming the sexy factor of your wardrobe. I'm going to assume you have a pair of well-fitting jeans. If not, those are an A #1 priority. And make sure they're not these Mom Jeans! I've listed the other items in order of "investment importance" - meaning if you don't already have it, this is where I'd spend your money first. And the key style tip? Do the opposite! I'll explain in a moment... ![]() Nordstrom 1. A Fancy Heel I suggest a metallic heel in gold or silver, depending on your preference and skin tone. A metallic is a neutral so it pairs with anything! Jeans and a black top, a spring dress, fun skirt and cardigan - a metallic heel elevates them all to sexy date-wear. ![]() White House/Black Market - $34 2. Chandelier/Statement Earrings I like crystal and metallic because, again, it goes with anything and everything. A metallic heel, jeans, black tee, and earrings like these? Do you see the sexy sneaking back? FYI - White House/Black Market is having a jewelry sale right now. Click through from our Shopping Section. WH/BM has great neutral options. ![]() Liberty of London for Target 3. A little shot of boudoir. Raid your lingerie collection for items with just a hint of sheerness or (if not sheer) a high enough neckline that you don't have to wear a coverage tee underneath it. Try adjusting the straps to raise the neckline. Doesn't matter if it's normally a thigh-grazing chemise - slip that baby on over jeans and under a fitted jacket and it's a very sexy tunic top! Let something sparkly or satiny peek out from under a cardigan or blazer (buttoned for coverage if you need). Your hubby will know what it is... and will love it. I recently scored this little wrap number from the Liberty of London for Target intimates collection. It looks great with jeans or my dark gray skirt and heels. Remember that "opposite" tip I gave you? Here's what I meant. One of the easiest styling tips to scoring a sexy look is to do the opposite of what you do during the day or week. As outlined below... ![]() 4. Update your Mom Do If your husband normally sees you with your hair down, wear it up for date night. Normally up in a pony? Wear it sleek and flowing with a deep side part. Normally straight? Stun him with a head full romantic curls. And consider whether it's time to update your style completely. A razor-sharp bob can be easy with kids, and styles up very sexy. Layers can lift a longer style out of sagging and dragging. ![]() 5. Learn Sexy Makeup Another opposite? Your makeup! If you normally don't wear any makeup, your biggest bang for the buck will be to learn how to do a smoky eye. It's sexy and does NOT have be done with black makeup, which can look harsh the older you get. I love a smoky eye in purples or browns. A simple Google or YouTube search will produce hundreds of options for tutorials. If you're near a Sephora or Nordstrom makeup department - pop in and have a makeup artist show you for free. If you often wear heavier eye makeup, then go with a neutral eye (maybe just a little liner and mascara) paired with a bold lip. It's the shake-up of your routine that brings the sexy here. ![]() 6. Dye a New Outfit Here's a final tip - dye some of your items to score a "new" date outfit. If you have plenty of "mom-friendly" tops but are in desperate need of some date wear, don't be afraid of dying! How about updating that stained white tee to a gorgeous deep turquoise? New clothes - for about $2. Gotta love that! I hope this helps rev up your date nights! It doesn't take a lot to turn simple into sexy. And above all - it's HOW you wear what you wear that counts the most. Make sure you put on that smile, which I'm sure is easy when you think of going out with your honey. Mastering Modesty - Skirt Slits 12/14/2009
It's interesting how different style issues suddenly catch your attention. Over the last few weeks I've noticed quite a few skirt slit problems. Women have either a) tried to stitch them partially or completely closed, b) left in the 'X' stitch from the manufacturer (Ach!), or c) given up and let their slip show through. Less than stylish options all. 1. Always, ALWAYS remove the little 'X' stitch before you wear something the first time. You'll find it on jacket/coat, sport coat, and blazer slits as well. It's meant to be removed. The manufacturer slips it in there to keep the slit neatly closed during transport and display. 2. It is almost never possible to completely close a slit without causing the skirt to pull awkwardly, ruining the line and look. You might be able to get away with it if you have less than an inch that needs to be closed. But if you're thinking that thigh-high slit on a skirt you really want will look fine as soon as you stitch it closed, you're wrong. So what are your options? If the slit is too high for your comfort, don't buy the skirt. Find another. If the slit isn't TOO too high, and you're up for a little fun, try this nifty trick... ![]() Sew in a nice piece of silk lining! I chose an animal print for my black pencil skirt because I like the unexpected flash when I walk. You can also choose a color to match your skirt but really, this is a perfect place to have a little fun. How about a gorgeous purple or pink silk lining on a grey skirt? Or a lovely black and white polka dot on a black skirt? Red lining with a khaki skirt? Yes! Silk scarves that you don't wear anymore are great because you already have them, the edges are already finished, and silk is strong. This is a high tension area of a skirt. If you have reasonable sewing skills you can do this yourself or take it to a tailor. I've only done this once and I'm still refining the best way to do it. If any of you have tips to suggest, I welcome them. In essence, what you're doing is as follows:
![]() I quickly mocked up the insert I'll be putting into one of my denim skirts. When Christmas and New Year's have quieted down I'll have time to create a detailed tutorial. A key point to remember: this works best with slits that overlap. 'V' slits, where the edges don't overlap at all, and may or may not even meet will still work, but the insert will always be seen. Many women avoid certain skirts because of this problem. Pencil skirts are ULTRA flattering on any body type. With this simple solution you no longer have to avoid them or settle for letting your slip show. This very easy and cheap fix will make the skirt in question infinitely more wearable. Hope it works for you! Modest Moments 11/16/2009
Another Monday. Another inspiration. This is Rachel McAdams in a Philip Lim dress. And while that front slit would need a tweak, I loved the knotted neckline, swingy front ruffle and perky sleeves. It's a stunning curve-hugging silhouette, not skin tight, and makes her look so feminine. You could completely do away with that front slit, or make it a small key-hole, and this dress would still be gorgeous. So 40's! So lovely! And you know I love a retro style. I expect you can't wear this dress and not have a wiggle in your walk and giggle in your talk. |
































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