I'm a firm believer in doling out kudos when they're deserved.  And the following round of applause and thank you is VERY well deserved.

It's no secret I'm a Shoeholic.  As I've said before, 1 dress + 14 pairs of shoes = 14 outfits. A month or so ago I spotted these shoes on the White House Black Market site
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"What adorable new shoes!" I thought. But new they were not.  I'd somehow missed them in my regular perusing of that site and they were now nearing the dreaded "Sold Out" status. The site only had a size 10 available.  But it was love at first sight (they're slingbacks with a hidden platform!) and I wanted them as my reward for the next 10 pounds I had just lost. A nationwide manhunt ensued.  I naturally tried the Utah stores first. Nothing. Then, based on the salesperson's recommendations, I started calling certain other stores, arching up through Idaho, Washington, and Oregon before finally hitting pay dirt with a store in California.

Now - WH/BM does deserve a teensy thumbs down for not having integrated inventory so that the style # of the shoe could have been searched, telling me exactly where it was (or wasn't) and saving me significant phone time.

But they get a HUGE thumbs up and standing ovation for having some of the nicest, most helpful, supremely courteous staff of any store.  And that's saying a lot. 
Every. Single. Employee bent over backwards to help me find these shoes; whether it was simply suggesting the best stores to target or actually taking my number, calling the other stores in their state THEMSELVES, and calling me back.  One outlet location in Oregon or Washington called me almost 4 weeks later to say they'd found a pair in my size, just in case I hadn't had any luck yet.  The store has style, and not just on the racks.

A funny twist to the story - the first store I found who sent me the shoes actually sent me the wrong shoes.  They'd misunderstood what I was looking for and sent me these -      
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Delightful in their own right and I kept them as my reward for the first 10 pounds I'd lost and hadn't yet rewarded myself for.  How could I not considering both shoes were on final sale and... drum roll please... cost only $29 each.  That's right! More than $100 less than their original price. I love a good sale.  And the price made the heroic actions of the WH/BM folks even more commendable, considering they weren't trying to score a large ticket sale.  It was a chump-change $29 sale. I'm guessing the company puts a lot of stock in training their employees to understand the value of creating happy, lifelong customers.  And considering I have a whole new wardrobe to buy this year... it was a very smart move.  
 
The Boots Zip 11/18/2010
 
Drum roll, please.  For the first time in my adult life... I can zip boots.  Behold!
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excuse the blur - toddlers & cameras don't mix
They're normal boots.  Not even "extra wide calves".  They're the Miz Mooz Solis boots, scored at the Nordstrom Half Yearly Sale and I have enjoyed a few stolen moments here and there admiring them from the above vantage point.
Admiring them and the fact that THEY ZIP!
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I've marveled at them in my mirror.

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Definitely did some happy dancing as well, though I restrained myself during the shopping. Not that Nordstrom doesn't love a good happy dance.

The boots are my reward for losing 50 pounds.  That "major milestone" I hinted at last week.  I was a little trepidacious upon entering the shoe department.  You see, the last time I was at this weight was 1995 and I was living in Arizona, where the weather just didn't inspire to buy knee-high leather boots.  The last time I was "sort of in the vicinity of" this weight was when I met my future husband - and the boots didn't zip. 
So imagine my utter and complete joy when I pulled a pair off the sale rack, slid them up under my jeans and zipped them right up.  No tugging, no pinching.
Then imagine how giddy I was when - knowing I was pushing my luck - I folded my jeans around my leg and zipped the boots up WITH THE JEANS INSIDE!
It was a glorious afternoon.

It is an incontrovertible fact that style and weight are inextricably linked.  Yes, one can find clothing that flatters at almost any weight.  Almost.  But it has been a long time since I was able to personally enjoy certain styles of clothing.  Boots included!

A fantastic journey will soon begin for me. 2011 is the Year of the Wardrobe!
I've shrunk out of nearly everything in my closet and need to learn how to dress this new body.  I hope you'll come along for the fun.  I'll be tapping the style experts (Imogen! Reachel! Tim! Nina! Stacy & Clinton! Trinny & Susannah! and more!) through various books and blogs. Hopefully personally consulting with a few as well.

But this week I'm mainly reveling in this fact....   
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... the boots zip.
 
 
With fall fashion always reemerge real shoes. Farewell flip-flops, hello fabulous footwear! 
As we've been discussing, there is a strong resurgence in fashion right now to the classic and ladylike.  You may not know it, but shoes with menswear detailing have always been classic for women.  These shoes ground more feminine styles and offer a nice dash of masculinity, which just serves to make the ladylike look even more lovely.

Details to look for are:
  • Classic loafer details like fringe, tassles, flaps and bands across the vamp    (think penny loafers or either of the brown loafers below)
  • Buckles and laces
  • Oxford and wingtip edging
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Above are the shoes in my own wardrobe that fit the bill.  Clockwise from top:
  • Tod's lavender heeled loafers with fringe & buckle details
  • Franco Sarto dark brown heeled loafer
  • Nazareno Gabrielli red mid-heel loafer with wing-tip detailing and buckle
  • Michael Kors camel espadrille flat with fringe & lacing
  • Enzo Angiolini light brown heeled loafer
  • Tod's black flat skimmer with flap and buckle
If you're wanting to add this classic look to your own shoe collection, here are some options currently available and a few styling tips.
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Charles David - heels.com










The look can be as over-the-top...

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Ralph Lauren - Nordstrom


... or as subtle as you like.

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Sam Edelman - heels.com

Style Tip:  Adding even a little heel makes the look decidedly feminine. When wearing flats, make sure there is an aspect of feminine (round toe, girly color, espadrille edging, etc.) to keep from looking like you're wearing your husband's shoes.

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Not Rated - heels.com


Remember, we're looking for menswear details.  Things like wingtip edging or laces as seen here.

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Vince Camuto - heels.com


Lacing and oxford styling here.
(Love the colors, not a huge fan of the peep toe "shootie" style.)

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Restricted - heels.com


Loafer banding and studs detail this suede wedge peep toe.

Style Tip: You can leave your legs bare or pair with tights to brave the cold weather, even thin socks (scrunched to ankle or knee-high) can be cute but beware looking too "school girl."

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Nine West


Sturdy buckles instead of bows nod toward menswear.

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Miz Mooz - Nordstrom

Style Tip:  You can pair these shoes with anything from skirts and dresses to trousers and jeans.
 
When wearing with pants, choose a shoe in a feminine color or with a higher heel or fancy details to avoid looking too androgynous.

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Jeffrey Campbell - Nordstrom


Whether you go subtle or all-out, a little menswear detailing is truly timeless.

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Bass - Nordstrom


And finally, a fabulous take on the classic saddle shoe that I've never seen before!
How adorable are these, you ask? I'll let you know as soon as they arrive.  Oh yes, at only $68 they had to be mine. They also come in cocoa.

Click through any of the pictures to our shopping section if you want a pair of your own, or would like to hunt down versions of the other sassy shoes you've seen.


 
 
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Be still, my heart!  That's SO worth a ticket across the pond!!
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With the end of summer and the onslaught of fall fashion also comes the fall footwear.  For men, this transition doesn't even really happen but for women it hails the end of flip-flops and sandals and the reintroduction of actual foot-covering shoes. 
So how are yours looking?
A few weeks ago, as a belated birthday present for my husband, I shined up all of his shoes.  And it inspired me to do a post about it, which I was originally going to file under Dress Your Man. But then I realized I needed some new polish for my own shoes and that reminded me that many women don't ever think to shine their own shoes. 
(Like my stream of consciousness to arrive at this post?)
Scuffed shoes are one of those little things that can really kill a look.  And it's so easy to correct!  A little polish and a rag and you'll be looking shiny and new in no time.
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My shoe shine kit looks a lot like the one above.
  • Shoe polish tins in colors to match our shoes (black, tan, brown, cordovan, neutral and white for my daughters' shoes)
  • A wide brush (for broad strokes across the shoe)
  • A small brush (for small, circular strokes in hard to reach areas)
  • A suede block (for cleaning suede, looks kind of like an eraser with a stiff brush on one side)
  • Rags (cut from old t-shirts)
  • A couple ziplock baggies (so the polish that seeps through the rags doesn't color my fingers)
  • Edge tint (this is for staining away scuffs that happen on the visible edges of the soles and heels)
So before fall really hits, pull out your leathers and get to buffing!
Your man and your own feet with thank you!
 
 
I'm a shoe girl.  Never been a bag girl.  Not a mountain-of-accessories girl. 
Unequivocally a shoe lover.  For me, one dress + 14 pairs of shoes = 14 different outfits.  But something has been niggling me about certain styles of shoes we've been seeing a lot of and I've finally found a definition for it!  Thanks to the following quote from Tom & Lorenzo and their "fabulous and opinionated" critique of fashion and style. 

"Let's all light candles and pray for the end of 20-lb. shoes of anger. We're tired of starlets walking the red carpet looking like they have bear traps on their feet."
That was it!  (After all, aren't we all starlets?)  I've been confounded by the "bear traps!"  The "angry shoes!" The "horses hooves!" Below is a perfect example...

Bear traps.
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Philosphy di Alberta Ferretti - Gilt
Not bear traps.
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Philosophy di Alberta Ferretti - Gilt
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Camilla Skovgaard


GRRRR!!!
Extreme bear traps!
Seriously angry shoes.

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Oscar de la Renta - the Outnet


Not angry shoes.

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Sigerson Morrison


Grouchy, clomp-clomp horses hooves.

(And not because of the wedge heel.  Wedges are great!)

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Jimmy Choo



Happy, walking-on-air shoes.

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I don't think it's a color issue because, look!  Nude bear traps!

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Jimmy Choo


And I don't think it's a strap issue, because I wouldn't call these angry shoes.  Nor bear traps.  (Would you?)

It seems to be more the "weight" of the shoe - both visually and literally speaking.  A shoe could be made of neoprene and technically weigh nothing but still look heavy and hoof-like on the foot.

I've been loving all the 40's and 50's silhouette's that designers have been tapping of late.  And I like pairing a retro style with a modern shoe.  Keeps the outfit from becoming a costume.  I don't mind a sturdy shoe.  It can add a necessary touch of toughness to an otherwise frilly outfit and looks great with jeans and trousers.  I even like aggressive shoes, on occasion.  They can be unique and fun.  But Tom and Lorenzo hit the nail on the head - too often the shoes come off looking angry and at odds with the rest of the outfit.  Take the below ensembles as an example...
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BCBG
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BCBG
See what I mean!  Truly, "bear traps" and "angry shoes" are perfectly accurate descriptions. So what are your thoughts?  Are you digging the angry shoes or hoping they disappear? Are they the perfect shoe to grab for those times when you're listening to Alanis & Jagged Little Pill?  Or do they not really have a place in your closet and you opt for feminine footwear?  Me, I'm in the latter category.  I just don't find myself drawn to them. I'll admit, it's a very fine line between aggressive and angry shoes, but I prefer feminine, flirty, sexy, retro and unique over bear-trap, growling, horse hooves. 
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Havaianas - Rue La La


And a final note... just in case you were thinking it.

Lightening up in the footwear department doesn't mean it's acceptable to wear flip-flops everywhere.  That trend (thankfully!) died over a decade ago.

Save these for the backyard and beach.

 
Shoe Shy? 07/06/2009
 

Why don't modest dressers have the most fabulous shoes?  Compared to much of the rest of the world, our outfits from neck to knee are relatively tame.  So why aren't our shoes making bigger statements?  Why, my sisters, do I see so many boring, bland, gag-me-with-a-shoehorn, frump-a-dump shoes on you!?!  Let's discuss the possible explanations.

Is it a money issue?  I've certainly been one of those who's said that, if I only had a little more disposable cash in my wallet, I'd have more fabulous clothes.  But I try to remind myself that true style doesn't have a price tag.  A great wardrobe is a combination of both higher quality investment pieces, and lower priced trendy/often replaced pieces. While you can save money buying cheaper white t-shirts that you're just going to replace every year or so anyway, shoes are ABSOLUTELY an investment item.  Cheaply made shoes (notice I didn't say "cheap", but "cheaply made") will look old and break down much faster than well-made shoes.  What price you pay for those well-made shoes is up to your budget and bargain hunting abilities.  I am all about scoring a great deal on good shoes.  If you cast a wide search net (stay tuned for the upcoming post about widening your search) and bide your time, you'll usually find what you want at a pain free price.  Usually.  Some things never go on sale. Hello Blahnik? You and that Carolyne high-heel halter-back.  I'm talkin' to you! Don't pretend you can't hear me!

Is it a fear issue?  Are you too shy to let your feet make a bolder statement?  I've heard lots of excuses for wearing snooze inducing footwear.  Everything from, "Bright shoes are for little girls." and, "It's not sophisticated." to, "I don't want to appear too racy or radical and draw attention to myself."  As I've said before, whether you want to or not, everyone makes a fashion statement.  Every day.  Shoes speak volumes so think of them as your PR agents. There's a moment in the movie Sneakers, when River Phoenix comes to Robert Redford all excited that there are two potential clients waiting to see him.  "Shoes?" asks Redford.  "Nice!" says River.  And only then is the team excited to let the men in.  Truly, what could happen by literally stepping out of your comfort zone in some non-traditional (for you) shoes?  It'll be an adventure!  Your step will certainly be a little perkier... you'll probably give yourself a quick pedicure since your feet will be showcased... you'll feel better from the pedi and do a quick mani... might as well swipe on a touch of mascara... before you know it that baby step of a new choice in shoes has turned your whole day into something more fun than it might have been. 

Is it a comfort issue?  Is it easy to spend a few hours in 4" stilettos?  Nope.  And it's no crime to lower your heel height as the amount of time you'll spend in them increases.  Statement shoes don't have to be sky high heels. Everything from heel height to color to embellishments comprise the shoe's statement.  I usually start high and knock an inch off for every two hours I expect to be standing in them.  And the color or my shoes turns on the more my outfit tones down.  Try thinking of comfort in the context of your whole look.  If the outfit will be ruined, or at least not enhanced, by dull and boring shoes, you're really not going to be that comfortable.  Knowing you look great from head to toe is infinitely more "comfortable."

Do you not know how to do the look "right?"  Oh boy, do I sure understand this one.  I've had some colossal outfit disasters because I was trying too hard to recreate a certain look.  Shoes and accessories are actually the easiest ways to branch out.  Start with your favorite basics that always make you feel great.  That perfect skirt?  The trousers that give you a perky rear view?  The top that brings out your eyes?  Now pick a shoe in a coordinating (not matching) color that you wouldn't normally wear.  Or maybe a basic color but a more daring style, such as a high-heel when you would always wear a flat.  The comfort and confidence of your go-to article of clothing will balance the out-on-a-limb shoe choice.  And practice makes perfect is true even where style is concerned.  The more things you try, the more pairings you'll find that you like (and don't like) and the easier it'll become.  

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To give you a little inspiration, here are some beauties from my own collection.

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Fun shoes also make you look taller by drawing the eye all the way down to your toes.

Keep the eye moving between statement shoes and fabulous earrings and they'll also view everything in the middle as wonderful.

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Take the first step and slip on a pair of shoes you think are outside your comfort zone.  Wear them confidently and I guarantee you'll get nothing but compliments.  Or jealous glances from those still too afraid to let their feet do more than just the walking!

And here are some to dream about and emulate!